This is the first time I am writing to you and I need your help. I am 21 and I have a boyfriend. We have been going together for over a year. I try to be honest with him but he is very jealous. He is always questioning me about who is calling me. I have never cheated on him but he has cheated on me. One day he left me at home and he did not come back until early the next morning and when he came home, I could smell sex on him. That was in January 2020. I did not say anything to him and quarrelled about the fact that he left me alone all night. But when he put his brief into the basket, I examined it and saw that he had sex. He slept for hours. I cooked and when he woke up, I told him I was ready to leave but he did not want me to leave. That’s when I told him that he could not manage another round and he asked me what I meant. I told him that I knew he went out and had sex and that he was tired. He held on to me so I could not get away. I didn’t mean to resist him but I was upset with him. I don’t know which girl he stayed with. I love him so much. I don’t want to lose him. He accuses me of having men with him and I know it’s because he has other girls. But I have never caught him with any. I don’t go back to his house in the evenings because of COVID. Pastor, I want you to give me good advice about what I should do.
You know the type of boyfriend you have. He is going to continue his lifestyle so you will have to be very careful with him. Make sure you do not have unprotected sex with him. You know that you have not been keeping other men with him so you should ignore him when he accuses you of doing so.