I have been in a relationship with a man for almost four years. He keeps saying he is the man of the house and that whatever he says goes and I must submit.
He is very rude and disrespectful. He uses expletives and also tells me about my mother. I am not dependent on this man. I have a good job but I love him and I was hoping that he would be the one I would marry. He tells me how much he loves and appreciates me but since lately I haven’t been feeling that way.
Pastor, this man says I can’t go to the gym unless he is going with me. He doesn’t even want me to go out with friends. My workplace had a social event and I decided to wear sandals that he bought for me and he was upset and he said he wasn’t taking me to work that morning. I did a pixie at work and he said I was too involved at work. He feels I must just go to work and return home. He is very controlling and I don’t know what to do. It is driving me crazy. I hope to hear from you soon.
You are living in bondage. Your boyfriend does not respect you. He wants to control you totally and you should not allow him to do so. You should leave this man. Why would he curse you and tell you about your mother? Use common sense and plan your exit from this man. He is out of control. Leave as early as you can.